This week we did mini case studies that dealt with choices
of whether or not to spend time with family or focus on career and for whatever
reason I wanted to get on a soapbox and share some amazing advice my
grandmother gave me early in my marriage that has had a large influence on our family culture. We had recently moved to Virginia but
it felt more like I lived in Virginia with our firstborn and my husband lived
in D.C. where he was working and going to school full-time. He would leave every morning before we woke
up and take the train to get to work and then he would get home after dark,
exhausted and have to study. Sunday was
often the only day we spent together. I
complained to my Grandma about being a single mom and she in turn shared what
she had just read about Brigham Young and mothers who came to him concerned
that he was calling their husbands to go on missions and they wouldn’t know
their children. Brigham Young told the
mothers to teach their children the gospel, about the priesthood and the great
things their husbands were doing. He
then promised them that when the children were older they would work in the
fields with their father and they would love him. She basically told me to knock it off and see
the bigger picture. I had a lot of
influence in our home and could either create a supportive culture or a
negative culture. One of the privileges
of being a Latter-day saint is that we have the long view. We know that as a couple we are creating an eternal partnership. We know what we are building both in our own
life and in our family’s life. We should
support our spouses in our journeys to multiply our talents and develop
ourselves. In our short thirteen years
together I have learned that we each have had to take a turn at needing to lean heavily on
the other for support. This is the purpose of family counsels.
In D&C 130:18, we read, “Whatever principle of intelligence we attain unto in this life, it will rise with us in the resurrection.” We are on this Earth to learn and all of our experiences in our life are part of our process of becoming like our Heavenly Father. The journey of the entrepreneur mirrors much of what we are striving to do in our life. An entrepreneur seeks mentors and experiences that help him discover and build talents. They have goals that they are moving toward and they seek business experiences and products that build up and help their customers and employees. Entrepreneurs seek to master a skill through practice and perseverance. In seeking growth in their careers, entrepreneurs are also attaining intelligence that will rise with them. To this end, we need to be prayerful and considerate when choosing our journeys. This course has had amazing talks and devotionals given by great leaders who are eager to...
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